Though I was never in combat, I am proud to be a veteran of the U.S Armed Forces. Serving in the Cold War of the late ’80s, I gained a new respect for all of those who came before me.
To this day, I am still impressed by anyone who puts in 20 years or more and retires from the military. No matter the political climate of the world, whether in outright conflict or not, it is never an easy job to serve your country.
And so, I am appreciative for those who remember our brave military men and women. Nov. 11 is Veteran’s Day, and what better way to express gratitude to those who keep us free? For me, it is pretty much the same routine each year. First, I meet up with a group of magicians who perform at the Alvin C. York VA Hospital. (Unfortunately, COVID has nixed that presentation in 2021.)
Then, I will go to Starbucks and show my military ID for a free coffee. After that, I go to lunch at one of the restaurants that offer meals to prior military, usually Applebee’s. Because it’s packed, I normally sit at the bar and strike up a conversation with a fellow vet—Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, it doesn’t matter; we are all a brotherhood of patriots.
Increasingly, I run into more and more women who have put their lives on the line for our nation and in the name of freedom. The Department of Defense being a male-dominated organization, I especially love to hear their stories to better understand their perspectives of military life. In many ways, it may be more difficult than that of their male counterparts.
Once done with lunch, I go to Great Clips for a complimentary haircut. I get a flat-top, which is what I maintained as a young soldier. My wife hates it, but I think it’s cool. This all may sound self-serving. Well, it is! In fact, anyone who has served can take advantage of these perks and has a rather lengthy list of businesses that offer them.
But the day makes me feel good, knowing there are those who still appreciate the sacrifices of others—especially in a time when there is such a lack of respect among Americans toward one another. Compared to those who defended democracy half a century ago, though, I have had it easy. When someone tells me “thank you for your service,” my response is that I didn’t do much. But at least I know those brave men and women who gave all are remembered. And I remember them, too.
It’s not just this one day a year, either. Several businesses in town offer a discount for those who signed up. There are even designated parking spots set aside. Texas Roadhouse and Jim ’N Nick’s BBQ have special parking for those who were awarded the Purple Heart.
The nation’s first military award, the Purple Heart was established by George Washington. It is given to those wounded or killed in combat. Even those who have never served may recognize the medal and know of its significance. After all, that’s why our first president commissioned it.
Medals exist for one chief purpose: to recognize those who have served and fought valiantly. We are all a brotherhood (and sisterhood) of people who are willing to sacrifice for our country and in the name of liberty. We come from all walks of life and in all shapes, sizes and colors. One thing we have in common though, is a love for America.
